Chapter 3: The Reclaiming

We are not reclaiming power to return to old thrones.

We are here to dissolve the very architecture of domination – and build something rooted in resonance.

This is not a rebellion.
It’s coming home.

Old Paradigm	The Feminine Reclaiming	Essence
Control	Inner Clarity	“I lead from alignment, not fear.”
Domination	Embodied Presence	“My presence is my influence.”
Ego-driven competition	Heart-intelligent intuition	“I choose truth over tactics.”
Power over others	Power with and through connection	“I am powerful in communion.”
Hierarchy	Co-creation & conscious leadership	“I hold space, not status.”
Hardness	Soft strength & clear boundaries	“I protect with grace, not with armour.”

Let’s have a look at the deeper shift we’re making.

Words are spells.
What we name, we shape.
What we repeat, we become.

If we only use softened words –
“nice”, “helpful”, “supportive” –
we condition our leadership to remain invisible, diluted, acceptable.

We weren’t born to be acceptable.
We were born to be authentic.

This chapter is an invitation to develop your own Power Language.

Write down 5 words you often use in professional settings.
Now feel into them – are they true?
Or are they toned down?

Now ask yourself:

Then reframe it. For example:

“I hold transformative space for high-level change.”
“I move systems with presence, not pressure.”
“I am a vessel for catalytic clarity.”

Don’t be afraid to sound “too much”.
You are not too much.
You are exactly the magnitude this world is aching for.

When you speak from truth, not template –
you don’t need to chase clients, followers or recognition.

Your words do the work.
Your field does the rest.

This is the frequency of real female power.

We are not reclaiming language to impress.
We are reclaiming it to inhabit ourselves fully.

When we shift our words,
we shift our posture,
our energy,
our decisions.

And that, dear sister in power,
is not just the beginning.
It’s the return to who you truly are.

Unapologetic Power